Tips for Creating New & Lasting Friendships
Hey Friends and Everyone out there! Here's my TOP 20 tips... These tips are based on lived experiences from myself and other friends & apply to all relationships but, today I’m typically focusing on friendships that we form after we have left very extreme belief systems that provided instant connections for us in the past. They also equipped us with false expectations, critical judgement of others, terrible information (like building codependency instead of inter dependence & independence ) and seeking for validation from others.( yikes)! So being out for the last 7 years these are my personal experience tips , my two cents, if you will... Do not lead with your trauma story, or your riddled past of how you grew up in a cave of isolation first - save that information for people of trust. You’re not hiding it but you’re also not using it as a precursor to let everyone know why are you functioning and acting the way you do and why you are a little ...